Single OR Not

So I'm sitting here and I'm wondering it's 2009 and I'm Still Single..but it's Funny though since if you were too ask me IF I was Happy too be Single..Strange uh? Kinda a Contradiction in terms. lol...But I wonder fo People truely WISH too be alone? I find this question BOTH simple BUT ....Yet hard also. Since I'm looking at it from a Differnet perspective...Since I'm on the side lines here's My Input..I think people who say they Like too be alone ACTUALLY say this becuase they want some type of response favorable or Not, and when they don't get the Right Answer they feel as if it's the other persons fault for answering them..BUT on the other hand It someone SAYS they want someone too be with I think it's just a insecurity that deep down we all have BUT are just afraid too admit it. When I read these date sites, and read what all these people write..the one thing I notice is that they all look for more of a physical connection then a Mental or emotional attachment..I know this because I've tried these sites and although I'm not the prettest or have a Sexy body, I got no response from these so call Not looking for sex types..lol who do these people think they are fooling. What ever happen too the notion that beauty is skin deep? I have ALOT too offer someone and although I am not HOT or SEX in anyway...I make up for it in Kindness, caring, Warm, and a Bit of a Romantic. It makes me wonder how much the dating scene hasn't changed YET has at the same time. I just wonder sometimes...Do women REALLY know what it is they want? DO they want too start A New? or just the same ol B/F in a New body and have too use these tired ol excuses of " I keep Dating the wrong guys" stuff? The reason they Keep dating the same guys over n over again is becasue they DON'T want too change THERE minds too the fact that a guy DOESN'T have too resemble their Last B/F in anyway, but that there are REALLY Decent guys out there like myself who may NOT be a 10 but still are decent enough too wait there time until that somone comes along..